Tuesday, July 21, 2020

Learn a new language - Teen Lingo


“Hey Bro, Whassup?“ 
“Nothing Bro, just chilling.”
“Listen Dude, did you watch the latest  video of JordIndian?
“Lol. It was so litt man!”

If you were to read or listen to this, it would be natural for you to assume that it is a conversation between two young boys.  Well, this is how teenage girls also talk to each other these days – addressing each other as bro and dude! 

There is a whole new lingo that amazingly every little kid seems to be aware of. It is just adults who need a new dictionary or thesaurus to understand their slang words and acronyms.   Take the above sentence – ‘It is so littt’ .  Here ‘litt’ means something that is fantastic.  The greater number of ‘t’s added to the word indicates an increase in its amazing-quotient!

This new language that teenagers and the youth use is all pervasive – SMS messages, Instagram posts, telephone conversations – everywhere, their dialect is filled  with short, terse sentences that may often be incomplete.  For a generation that grew up with Wren and Martin, ploughing through their incorrect sentence constructs can be frustrating.  But for gen-next, acronyms are the most sought-after words. 

Here is a glossary of some of the words popularly used by them – this will help us understand our young friends better!

IKR – I know, Right!  When using this, you are vehemently agreeing with whatever the sender is suggesting.  My teenage daughter uses this quite frequently in her messages – especially when a friend of hers shares some bit of gossip about a mutual friend from school who acts in a certain way.

GTG, TTYL– You will find these two used one after the other. Sentence construct - Dude, my Mom’s calling, GTG – Got to Go.  TTYL – Talk to you later!

YOLO -  You Only Live Once.  This is a profound truth of life – used often as an excuse when you especially do or indulge in something extravagant.  This word is a passport to leading life on your terms.

LOL – Laugh Out Loud.  When you find the message interesting and funny, you remark LOL. You may not laugh but will use it to convey that you found the message funny. 

ROFL – Rolling on the Floor Laughing – You use this when you find something extremely humorous or funny.  It is so funny that you are rolling on the floor with laughter.

LMAO – Laughing My Ass Off – Another expression used when you find something extremely funny.  This is used a lot more informally than ROFL.

BFF Best Friends Forever -    Not to be confused with BF (Boyfriend), a  BFF is like a soul sister – understands your every mood and puts up with your idiosyncrasies.

OK BOOMER – When your millennial agrees to unwillingly accept your suggestion and go with it.  He or she uses this disparagingly to convey that your ideas are old and quaint and that you are an old-timer.


TBH – To be Honest.  When you try to soften the criticism or fault,  you hem and haw.  TBH will help you to cut to the point.  Sentence construct – TBH, I don’t know if I am doing the right thing.

FOMO – Fear of Missing Out – This is peer pressure at its worst, when we end up doing things despite our dislike for it, due to the fear of being left out.  This highlights the reason why we do certain things – the fear of not being part of a social circle.


NM- Nothing Much – When someone asks you what you are doing, and you are not really doing anything in particular, you reply with a NM.

SAVAGE – The word actually means wild and untamed but when used by teens, it is a positive adjective.   When someone is savage, it means he/she is super cool. 



CHILLING – When you are hanging out with friends, enjoying their company, maybe having something to eat and drink – you are basically relaxing and having a good time.

TMI Too much Information -When you find that there is an information overload and you want the talker to stop discussing a topic. Sentence construct –“Whoa, Bro!  TMI – please stop.”

SMH – Shaking my Head -Used in messaging, when you want to convey how dumb or annoying the other person’s idea is.   It has the effect of rolling your eyes at the other person’s suggestion.

WHATEVER – Most commonly used by youngsters, it highlights their indifference and their view that they are not remotely concerned by whatever you are doing or suggesting.  

Now that you are armed with their lingo, I hope you will be able to chill with Gen-next!

 PC - The pictures used are not mine. All images have been open sourced from the internet.